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Friday, August 27, 2010
Love
Here is something that started rattling around in my head last night. I was feeling a bit disconnected (alone/isolated) and started thinking about the boundary between love and sex. In essence I was wondering what a woman might say to a man who needed to feel love.
I wish I was a better writer to express these ideas. Hopefully that is something that improves with practice. Given my limitations, I would ask you to read this slowly, perhaps out loud as there are a few things going on here that can get lost in scanning. To varying degrees, each line has meaning beyond it's text.
A Woman's Love
Men often confuse love for sex
Women often confuse sex for love
My love can be hard to find
I wear my love with honesty
I want you to know my love
My love is long
My love is wide
You kneel for my love
My hands in your hair
My love takes your breath away
My love holds you speechless
My love wants more of you, all of you
You need my love inside you
My love enters you slowly, sweetly
My love is patient
My love lies deep within you
I want you to feel my love
Our hearts in rhythm
Our bodies in motion
My love fills you
My love opens you
My love moves you
Your love is hard
Your love builds, sways
Your love aches for release
Your love spills forth
Your love covers your heart
I can touch your love
Your love is warm
You say your love is salty, even bitter
I can taste your love in your kiss
My love leaves you shaking
My Love remains
Our love binds us, connects us, fulfills us
I wish I was a better writer to express these ideas. Hopefully that is something that improves with practice. Given my limitations, I would ask you to read this slowly, perhaps out loud as there are a few things going on here that can get lost in scanning. To varying degrees, each line has meaning beyond it's text.
A Woman's Love
Men often confuse love for sex
Women often confuse sex for love
My love can be hard to find
I wear my love with honesty
I want you to know my love
My love is long
My love is wide
You kneel for my love
My hands in your hair
My love takes your breath away
My love holds you speechless
My love wants more of you, all of you
You need my love inside you
My love enters you slowly, sweetly
My love is patient
My love lies deep within you
I want you to feel my love
Our hearts in rhythm
Our bodies in motion
My love fills you
My love opens you
My love moves you
Your love is hard
Your love builds, sways
Your love aches for release
Your love spills forth
Your love covers your heart
I can touch your love
Your love is warm
You say your love is salty, even bitter
I can taste your love in your kiss
My love leaves you shaking
My Love remains
Our love binds us, connects us, fulfills us
Sunday, August 16, 2009
The Toys We Love
UPDATED 8/18/09 I thought it would be enlightening for me and anyone who happens across this blog to discuss some of the pivotal toys in our toy box. I am really struggling with how to do this though as I am still learning the whole Blog/Delicious/FriendFeed/etc thing. If anyone knows of best practices for blogging, I am all ears since noting something on here and then on delicious seems repetitive. I admit to taking considerable inspiration (and a bit of copying) from VickieP and hopefully my imitation will be taken as the sincerest form of flattery.
I will update this post periodically as I find more websites that sell our favorites.
First up, the Tantus Goliath is a favorite of mine though we probably would not have bought it online because of its rather imposing name. Fortunately we are near a rather well appointed sex shop and it took us all of two minutes to decide this was a 1-3/4" winner. Definitely not for beginner peggers, but not as daunting as one might think. If a couple takes their time, the width becomes something of a welcome friend. This is a nice toy for any woman that wants to see their man's ass work around a cock. Only downside, for me at least is that it is pretty much impossible to give a proper blowjob given its size.
What good is a nice cock without a great harness? Well, its still pretty good, but I think most women would agree that a good harness can make the joys of strapon sex that much more engaging. We got our Spareparts Joque harness from Babeland and it is pretty much the only harness we use any more. The fact that you can throw it in the washing machine is a huge plus for anyone that worries about cleanliness. I included a video of Audrey from Babeland describing the finer points of fucking with this great harness.
One of the joys for being pegged is the sensation of having your rear full of cock. Unfortunately it isn't very practical to walk around with the misses behind you wearing a harness and dildo all day. Enter the fantastic world of butt-plugs and our favorite, the Tail Light. Upon doing a bit of research, it tragically doesn't appear anyone stocks this particular product anymore! JT's Stockroom carries a similar Acrylic Anal Plug though I can't attest to that product. In our opinion, the 2" Tail Light is a great toy for stretching out ones ass before a serious bit of intimacy. Even during conventional sex, A. will occasionally slide that fellow in me, making it very hard to hold back my orgasm. Similarly, buying groceries becomes an entirely different experience when one of these is in play. The acrylic is quite nice to look at and is very smooth. For those with a visual interest, upon sliding it into one's ass your partner will be able to see quite well "inside" you due to the way these plugs refract light. I have linked here a review from JanesGuide, and I hope someone can tell me what happened to this great product line.
I probably should have started with the single most important tool for any kind of anal activity, Lube! Before the cock, plug, fingers or produce even come into the picture, lube is a must have accessory. Unless you are into some serious hurt (and likely injury), there really isn't any pegging without it. Our favorite thus far is BabeLube, and honestly we buy in bulk. It is a water based lube so it won't degrade our silicone toys and is just as effective for vaginal or anal intercourse. It has no flavor and indeed tastes like water when I go down on the misses for some post-coital licking. It will lose viscosity after a period of time like any water based lubricant, but can be refreshed with water or even saliva. Even better, it washes right out of sheets, carpets, upholstery, or wherever you happen to be bent over. Lube is a personal choice and I welcome any input on other brands that folks prefer.
I will update this post periodically as I find more websites that sell our favorites.
First up, the Tantus Goliath is a favorite of mine though we probably would not have bought it online because of its rather imposing name. Fortunately we are near a rather well appointed sex shop and it took us all of two minutes to decide this was a 1-3/4" winner. Definitely not for beginner peggers, but not as daunting as one might think. If a couple takes their time, the width becomes something of a welcome friend. This is a nice toy for any woman that wants to see their man's ass work around a cock. Only downside, for me at least is that it is pretty much impossible to give a proper blowjob given its size.
What good is a nice cock without a great harness? Well, its still pretty good, but I think most women would agree that a good harness can make the joys of strapon sex that much more engaging. We got our Spareparts Joque harness from Babeland and it is pretty much the only harness we use any more. The fact that you can throw it in the washing machine is a huge plus for anyone that worries about cleanliness. I included a video of Audrey from Babeland describing the finer points of fucking with this great harness.
One of the joys for being pegged is the sensation of having your rear full of cock. Unfortunately it isn't very practical to walk around with the misses behind you wearing a harness and dildo all day. Enter the fantastic world of butt-plugs and our favorite, the Tail Light. Upon doing a bit of research, it tragically doesn't appear anyone stocks this particular product anymore! JT's Stockroom carries a similar Acrylic Anal Plug though I can't attest to that product. In our opinion, the 2" Tail Light is a great toy for stretching out ones ass before a serious bit of intimacy. Even during conventional sex, A. will occasionally slide that fellow in me, making it very hard to hold back my orgasm. Similarly, buying groceries becomes an entirely different experience when one of these is in play. The acrylic is quite nice to look at and is very smooth. For those with a visual interest, upon sliding it into one's ass your partner will be able to see quite well "inside" you due to the way these plugs refract light. I have linked here a review from JanesGuide, and I hope someone can tell me what happened to this great product line.
I probably should have started with the single most important tool for any kind of anal activity, Lube! Before the cock, plug, fingers or produce even come into the picture, lube is a must have accessory. Unless you are into some serious hurt (and likely injury), there really isn't any pegging without it. Our favorite thus far is BabeLube, and honestly we buy in bulk. It is a water based lube so it won't degrade our silicone toys and is just as effective for vaginal or anal intercourse. It has no flavor and indeed tastes like water when I go down on the misses for some post-coital licking. It will lose viscosity after a period of time like any water based lubricant, but can be refreshed with water or even saliva. Even better, it washes right out of sheets, carpets, upholstery, or wherever you happen to be bent over. Lube is a personal choice and I welcome any input on other brands that folks prefer.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
An emerging hobby
Who knew that having family in town could be quite so time consuming or stressful? Probably everyone, but since we don't ever have guests it has been something of a surprise to us.
So I didn't get my pegging I was hoping for on Thursday night since we were both exhausted from running around all day. However there was a nice consolation last night in a manner that seems to be of growing interest to the misses (who I should refer to as A. going forward).
It was already midnight when we finished entertaining our family and everyone retired for the evening. A. asked me if I was still up for some play time and honestly, as tired as I was, I could have taken or left it. Since we had already delayed one evening we figured it was better to seize the moment, or the dildo as the case may be. So it was "off with the pants and onto the bed" which works well for me as we continue to cultivate A.'s command presence as it isn't her comfort zone. I grabbed our "play blanket" from Liberator, laid on my back and pulled my knees to my chest as A. requested.
As you might imagine, we have a pretty robust toy box and its always with a since of curiosity and amusement that I watch what she will pull out for the festivities. I was a bit disappointed when she pulled out one of our smaller, more "normal" dildos. I was looking for a good, thick pounding to relieve some tension and this wasn't entirely what I had in mind. Turns out she was worried about my retiring parents hearing our inappropriate behavior and decided a few inches of synthetic cock in my mouth would do the trick. I think she had an alternate motive to noise suppression given the smile she wore as she worked the cock in and out of my mouth. Maybe its a control thing that we enjoy or maybe I just like sucking my wife's cock and she enjoys giving it to me. Regardless, I could have done that until my jaw gave out.
Unfortunately she didn't leave the cock in my mouth but she had something else on her mind. A. has developed an interest in prostate massage, or more specifically, getting me to cum without either of us touching my cock. It's still a sensation I am getting used to, having two fingers intentionally massaging my prostate, and not one that I can easily describe. To date, we have yet to bring me off solely by prostate massage, or milking as the more common term, but not for lack of effort. After about 20 minutes of finger thrusting, massaging and pulsing we capitulated to having me touch myself while she continued her work below. I came about fifteen seconds after I began stroking my cock, a testament to the incredible work A. had done on my rear. There is definitely a surrender aspect to prostate massage, sort of a pleasurable denial or violation at the hands of my wife. I look forward to the day that my orgasm is predicated solely on her violating my ass, but until then practice, practice, practice.
So, no strapon I am afraid but still an enjoyable evening with my legs in the air.
So I didn't get my pegging I was hoping for on Thursday night since we were both exhausted from running around all day. However there was a nice consolation last night in a manner that seems to be of growing interest to the misses (who I should refer to as A. going forward).
It was already midnight when we finished entertaining our family and everyone retired for the evening. A. asked me if I was still up for some play time and honestly, as tired as I was, I could have taken or left it. Since we had already delayed one evening we figured it was better to seize the moment, or the dildo as the case may be. So it was "off with the pants and onto the bed" which works well for me as we continue to cultivate A.'s command presence as it isn't her comfort zone. I grabbed our "play blanket" from Liberator, laid on my back and pulled my knees to my chest as A. requested.
As you might imagine, we have a pretty robust toy box and its always with a since of curiosity and amusement that I watch what she will pull out for the festivities. I was a bit disappointed when she pulled out one of our smaller, more "normal" dildos. I was looking for a good, thick pounding to relieve some tension and this wasn't entirely what I had in mind. Turns out she was worried about my retiring parents hearing our inappropriate behavior and decided a few inches of synthetic cock in my mouth would do the trick. I think she had an alternate motive to noise suppression given the smile she wore as she worked the cock in and out of my mouth. Maybe its a control thing that we enjoy or maybe I just like sucking my wife's cock and she enjoys giving it to me. Regardless, I could have done that until my jaw gave out.
Unfortunately she didn't leave the cock in my mouth but she had something else on her mind. A. has developed an interest in prostate massage, or more specifically, getting me to cum without either of us touching my cock. It's still a sensation I am getting used to, having two fingers intentionally massaging my prostate, and not one that I can easily describe. To date, we have yet to bring me off solely by prostate massage, or milking as the more common term, but not for lack of effort. After about 20 minutes of finger thrusting, massaging and pulsing we capitulated to having me touch myself while she continued her work below. I came about fifteen seconds after I began stroking my cock, a testament to the incredible work A. had done on my rear. There is definitely a surrender aspect to prostate massage, sort of a pleasurable denial or violation at the hands of my wife. I look forward to the day that my orgasm is predicated solely on her violating my ass, but until then practice, practice, practice.
So, no strapon I am afraid but still an enjoyable evening with my legs in the air.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Tomorrow night
Almost forgot... we have family visiting us, amongst which is my father. The misses made the commitment to me that tomorrow night, while he is asleep next door, she is going to strap on our largest toy and have at me in a variety of ways. Having played the role of a good son most of my life (with sincerity and not a facade) its an interesting and stimulating idea to think that by this time tomorrow night I will be holding back and muffling my moans as my wife drills me with my father sleeping peacefully in the other room.
Fingers crossed that she is good on her word.
Fingers crossed that she is good on her word.
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